-
Substance misuse and abuse is a complex and emotional concern
for everyone involved.
-
This dilemma has no simple or easy solutions.
-
Your child did not invent the substance misuse and abuse.
-
Factors pushed her or him toward this lifestyle.
-
The solutions you discover will be different and unique from
everyone else's. Keep trying.
-
Don't let fear dictate your actions, or inactions. You have
nothing to lose, and you have a connection with your child to
gain.
-
Don't keep the problem a secret.
-
Get help from a counselor that sees the strengths your child
had prior to the substance misuse.
-
Let the school and/or work authorities know about the problem
and ask for their understanding and support.
-
Behind the bravado of the substance misuse, your child experiences
a lot of pain, sadness, embarrassment, self-doubt
and fear.
-
Remember who your child was before and who they might be again.
-
No matter what it takes, listen to your child and don't be
afraid of his or her pain.